I look in the mirror and notice one thing I dislike. After closer examination, one thing turns into ten more. Scrolling through Instagram, I am reminded of the body type society considers beautiful, the one I don’t have. The thing I don’t realize is so many women across the country are feeling the same way, and that my body is great the way it is.
The body positivity movement promotes acceptance of all bodies no matter shape, size or color. It represents loving your body regardless of society’s standards and negative associations to different body types. The movement is a product of the Fat Rights Movement that began in 1969 with the creation of the National Association to Aid Fat Americans, now known as the National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance.
Similar groups started popping up around the world, moving to social media where the body positivity movement began, according to BBC. The term “body positive” was created to embrace all body types in hopes of preventing mental health problems around body shame and eating disorders. The movement helps women feel confident in their bodies, including the stretch marks, rolls, acne and body hair.
In this story, University of Idaho women share their stories of dealing with body image and self-esteem. Despite all having different body types, they all relate to the same issues and insecurities. They are proof there is no ‘ideal’ body, all bodies are beautiful and unique. This photo story is dedicated to young women who are rejecting body shamers and choosing to love themselves instead.
“On Tik Tok, when they unzip their skinny jeans and jump around with their guts out, it’s just more real,” Anna Druffel said.
“You can’t compare yourself to others,” Anna Druffel said.
Being kind to yourself can help make a difference in the way you feel about your body. Your mindset is more powerful than the influence of others around you.
“Just one compliment to make yourself feel good before you go to sleep or in the morning and you slowly start to believe it,” Avery Costello said. “If you don’t think you’re beautiful, how is someone else supposed to love you? When I put down my body I think, ‘how can I tell my friends to not put themselves down when I’m over here doing the same thing.’ If you don’t want to do it for you, do it for other people.” | Photo by Lizzie Holdridge
So many women feel the pressure of society and question their worth because of it. Avery Costello believes talking about it with other women can improve the outlook of yourself and create comfort knowing others relate.
“I think it helps to know that you’re not the only one,” Costello said. “A lot of us live the same lives but we don’t know we do, or we have the same feelings but we don’t know we do. Even though they’re trying to tell you it’s beautiful, it’s nice to know you’re not the only one that thinks that way and that it’s normal and okay to think that way.” Many young women have adopted healthy habits as a result of the body positivity movement. They think of themselves differently and focus on how they feel rather than how they look. | Photos by Lizzie Holdridge
Being vulnerable with other women made me realize that everyone goes through these problems,” Avery Costello said.
“If I do catch myself thinking something negative about my body, I immediately cut myself off and I think ‘no, you’re not going to think about that’ and just keep moving on,” Romy de la Rosa said. “That’s helped a lot because my eating habits have gotten better and I’m thinking more about the quality of my food and how much energy I have. I never weigh myself because I don’t want to see that. I’m going to see a number and even if it’s low I’m going to say ‘oh my god.’ I only focus on how much energy I have at the gym or by the end of the day.” | Photos by Lizzie Holdridge“I tie in the way I look at myself with the way I feel,” Lizette Almanza said. “In the last couple of months, my eating habits have been better. I’ve been eating whole foods that are good for my body to make me feel better. I don’t try to be restrictive to myself, but I’ll tell myself to eat my veggies or eat my carbs. If I feel better, then everything’s better.” | Photo by Lizzie Holdridge